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Anger is a natural response. It is neither good nor bad on its own. However, an inability to manage anger can cause immense stress in your life.

That stress can, in turn, cause countless health and relational problems. Learning to work with your anger can ease that stress.

3 Key Benefits of Anger Management

Anger management stress relief helps you put anger in its proper place. It helps you learn three core things:

1. How to Minimize Unhelpful Anger

Anger can be helpful to us. It can point to areas of our life where we need change. However, constant, pervasive, irrational anger isn’t helpful. You can learn the difference. Moreover, you can eliminate the unnecessary anger which reduces stress.

 

2. Control Anger When You Can

Anger management stress relief shows you different ways that you can control anger. You don’t have to allow your frustration to overwhelm you. You can feel angry and yet have no angry outbursts or other anger issues.

 

3. Express Your Anger in Healthy Ways

Most importantly, anger management stress relief shows you how to express your anger in healthy ways. When anger is unhealthy it manifests as passive aggressive behavior or even outright aggressive behavior. You can express your anger in ways that are positive, helpful, and move you forward. You can express anger without harming yourself or others.

3 Key Benefits of Anger Management

Anger Leads to Stress

Before we get into our tips for how to reduce anger and stress, let’s look at the relationship between the two. Anger is an emotion. It’s an emotion that many people find uncomfortable. Moreover, it’s an emotion that we haven’t been taught well how to deal with in the United States.

Therefore, people tend to have one of two extreme approaches:

  • Some people try to stuff down their anger. It bottles up inside.
  • Other people let their anger loose, through verbal and or physical outbursts.

Both methods lead to stress. This happens at a physical level. Anger ignites your fight-or-flight response. Your body releases adrenaline and cortisol. These are stress hormones.

You literally feel stress in your body when you are angry. This manifests as physical symptoms such as increased heart rate, higher blood pressure, and changes in breathing.

People with unhealthy anger over a long term period of time can experience numerous health problems including headaches, digestion problems, heart attack, and stroke. Excess anger is also correlated with mental health issues including anxiety and insomnia.

 

7 Tips to Reduce Anger and Stress

Anger problems also cause issues in relationships be it at work, with friends and family, or even with strangers. Angry outbursts alienate others. This stresses those relationships, which further stresses your mental and physical health.

In contrast, if you reduce anger, then you can deal with frustrations in healthier ways. You can communicate more effectively with others.

Here are seven tips to reduce anger and stress:

1. Practice Deep Breathing

Slow, deep breaths help alleviate the stress in your body. As you breathe, you calm that fight-or-flight response. Any time that you begin to feel angry, pause and take five slow, long, deep breaths. Inhale and exhale as slowly as you can. Imagine the anger leaving your body with each exhale.

2. Learn Mindfulness Techniques

Mindfulness simply means that you notice what is happening in the moment, without judgment. If you can notice your anger trigger then pause and practice mindfulness, you can circumvent your angry reaction. One effective technique is to identify what you see, smell, hear, taste, and can touch right in this moment. As you do that, the anger dissipates. The more mindfully present you are, the better you can handle any stressful situation.

3. Get Enough Physical Activity

One of the ways to counteract that fight-or-flight response is to get physical. Don’t wait until anger builds up to do this. Instead, make physical activity a regular part of your day. Walking, running, bicycling, swimming, dancing, and yoga are all terrific movement options.

4. Repeat a Positive Word or Phrase

Come up with a word or phrase that you can use as a mantra when you notice that you are acting angry. For example, remind yourself, “everything is okay in this moment” or “I can let this go for now.” You might even just remind yourself “relax” or “chill out” or “take it easy.”

You might even share the phrase with your closest friends and family members, so that they can remind you of it when they experience your anger. This isn’t a way to ignore that you are angry. Instead, it’s a way to calm down in the moment and gain perspective so that you can deal with your anger from a healthy place.

5. Count Backwards from 100

If you feel particularly angry, count backwards by 3s or 7s. Focusing your brain on this type of task helps alleviate the anger.

6. Take a Mental Vacation

Go to your happy place. Close your eyes. Let everything around you melt away. Spend a few minutes imagining your favorite place in the world. Picture every aspect of being in that place. Relax. Let the anger melt away.

7. Prioritize Self-Care

Are you sleeping well? Eating right? Living a healthy work-life balance? Have you done some of your favorite hobbies recently or had a call with a favorite relative? The better you take care of yourself on a daily basis, the easier it is to be your best self.

7 Tips to Reduce Anger and Stress

Anger Management Therapy Supports You

Anger management stress relief is something that you can learn to do on your own. However, it helps a lot to get support from a mental health professional.

Anger management counseling can help you identify your anger triggers, separate out reasonable anger from irrational or unhelpful anger, learn how to reduce anger in your day-to-day life, and teach you skills to express your anger in healthy, helpful ways. Reach out to us today to speak with one of our anger management therapists.

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